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Let’s talk about Grief 👀 My kids are still d Let’s talk about Grief 👀 My kids are still doing big things.  Like graduating high school, Getting girlfriends, and Going off to college. And my late husband isn’t seeing any of these significant milestones.  Even though it’s been 10 years  since my last husband, Jamie, passed away, Grief still shows up  That’s why society thinking there’s a time limit to grief is completely absurd…  Tell me in the comments – have you heard this advice? Did it sit well with you?! #Widow #widows #widowssupportwidows #healingprocess #grieving #griefsucks #widowsofinstagram #widowsoninstagram #alwayshealing
Every now and then…You need to be reminded of ho Every now and then…You need to be reminded of how great you really are. Now that it’s been three years since your spouse's death, People might not be cheering you on as much anymore. But, I want you to know that I see you. You’re putting so much work into your healing process. Even though some days it feels like you're barely keeping your head above water, You’re still putting one foot in front of the other. Pat yourself on the back. You deserve it! Share this with another widow who needs a pat on the back. #widows #widow #healingprocess #grief #griefjourney #widowlife
Guilt and Shame are tricky little boogers.  I ha Guilt and Shame are tricky little boogers.  I have clients who feel guilty when they complain about their financial situations.   Do you feel the same way, too? It’s like your money problems aren’t “bad” enough, so you shouldn’t be upset about them. Which leads to shaming yourself. Maybe you aren’t in a money crisis BUT.. Your money concerns are just as valid as the next widows. So, if you’re brain is shaming you with  “Quit whining about your finances.  You’re better off than so many others” Just offer it this back. “It’s true that I’m fine and it’s okay to want to be better” Leave me a ♥️ if you need to hear this.  #widows #widowssupportwidows #widowsofinstagram #widowsoninstagram #healingprocess #moneymindsetshifts #moneymindsetforwomen
🎶Love, love, loooooooove!!!  Let me count the 🎶Love, love, loooooooove!!!  Let me count the ways my clients love my coaching program…  1️⃣Working with another widow 2️⃣Seeing how to take control of your spending 3️⃣Getting help with both money and gried in one program Want to see what all the hype is about?!  Tap the link in my bio to schedule a Next Level Widow call today🔗 #widow #widowssupportwidows #widowsoninstagram #healingprocess #moneymindsetshifts #moneymindsetforwomen
If you feel you're horrible with money and try usi If you feel you're horrible with money and try using positive affirmations, your mind will call BS and reject it. When you add the word yet, can, or learning, it allows your mind up to see that improving your spending habits is possible. Which will, in turn, help you improve your confidence around money. What phrase will you start using? #moneymindsetshifts #spendingmoney #moneymindsetforwomen #moneytalk #widow #widows #widowsofinstagram
Today, Jamie would have been the big 50!! Unfortu Today, Jamie would have been the big 50!! Unfortunately, he left us just 2 short months after this picture was taken. That day we had a great time celebrating his 40th birthday. Still hard to believe this was his last birthday 🎉 The boys and I celebrated him with our “birthday traditions”. Earlier this week, we went to Red Lobster for a crab dinner 🦀 while today Brady and I will be having cake. 🎂 Even though it’s been 10 years without him, today still makes me sad. I’ll allow myself to cry 🥹 and feel all of the deep emotions AND honor him by having some fun with my kids. I love and miss you so much. How do you celebrate your late husband’s birthday? ‌ #widows #widow #youngwidow #widowsofinstagram #healingprocess
Do you judge the way that you’re grieving over y Do you judge the way that you’re grieving over your late spouse? I definitely did. I would say things like, “I shouldn’t get so upset,” or “I hate that I’m still sad about his death.” These statements make you feel even worse. Grief is already hard So, it makes sense that you turn to online shopping to help lift your mood. Been there. Done that. Instead, start saying…. Of course, I will miss my husband, no matter how long it's been. Grief has no time limit There is no right or wrong way to grieve These minor word changes can make a massive difference in the way you feel about your grief And you won’t need to shop to feel better. Which of these new phrases were helpful to you? #widow #widowsofinstagram #widows #stopjudgingyourself #moneyhabits
When you realized there is no right or wrong way t When you realized there is no right or wrong way to healing, you make healing easier. 💡Lightbulb moment!!  Thinking  there is only one way to heal doesn’t honor way your unique situation Your situation is different than mine. And that’s okay. My healing journey isn’t better or worse than yours. It’s just different.    If this was helpful, comment with a 🥰below.  #widows #widowsofinstagram #widowsupport #lifeafterloss #healingprocess
Grieving makes it difficult to see the small beaut Grieving makes it difficult to see the small beautiful things of life. The pain and sadness from losing your spouse  feels so heavy which can make it hard to enjoy life. When you are down be intentional with where you put your focus. This can help lift your spirits and make life feel a little bit better.  So go find a beautiful flower or enjoy a lovely sunset.  What is something beautiful you have enjoyed today? #healinghearts  #findingjoy  #innerhealing #youngwidow #widowstrong #widows
10th Father's Day without Jamie. It still hurts a 10th Father's Day without Jamie. It still hurts and he is still missed. For the new widows, it definitely doesn't hurt like it did at the beginning. For those farther out, it's okay if it's still hard. Happy Father's Day, Jamie. You were the best! What was your spouse's name and how long has it been? #widow #widowsofinstagram #widowmom #missingyou #healingprocess
Your brain 🧠 has it backward ◀️  Beating Your brain 🧠 has it backward ◀️  Beating your past self up doesn’t help you make better decisions  It keeps you stuck.  To make better decisions, believe that your past self was doing the best she could with the resources she had. This helps your current self feel more confident about making new decisions.  Are you ready to feel more confident with your decision? I’ve got you!  Comment below with a 🤩 or DM me the code word READY, to join my email list. 🥳 #griefjourney #healingprocess #widow #widowlife #widowsofinstagram
People don’t understand what it’s like to lose People don’t understand what it’s like to lose a spouse unless they have walked this walk. Truthfully how are they supposed to know? Did you know? I know I didn’t. This isn’t something that your friends and family can read about in a book and then get it. This is why people will say things about your grief like, "aren't you over this by now". Or “Wow, it’s only been 1 year; how is she already dating”. You, my widow sister,  end up frustrated and hurt when you expect others to understand this unique journey. By accepting that people just don’t get it,  and that’s okay,  you can remove a layer of annoyance from your life. You do your healing your way! You got this. Drop me a 🥰 if this was helpful #widow #healingprocess #grieving #widowsofinstagram #widowsupport

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