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by tipabr | Feb 21, 2020 | Uncategorized

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Money experts are constantly judging how individua Money experts are constantly judging how individuals spend their money 👏

They don’t know what is best for you and your situation.   

ONLY YOU DO!

Most of them don’t know what it’s like to loss a spouse 
Or
Dealing with your grief while raising kids.

BUT WE DO!!!

The way to get better with your money is to  create a spending plan that allows you to: 

🥳 Buy items that bring you joy

🥳 Do activities that make you happy

🥳 Invest in your mental health

🥳Learn and grow in this new chapter of life

This is what I help my all of my clients do.  

I can help you do the same. 

What is something that you enjoy spending you money on?😏🙌

#widowlife #widows #moneycoach #healingprocess #money #healing #spendingplan #liveyourbestlife
Most people believe they don’t need a money coac Most people believe they don’t need a money coach because they have a financial planner.

This is like saying you have a baseball pitcher and don’t need a catcher.

Same sport but didn’t roles.

This goes for financial advisors and money coaches also.

Both are important members to have on your money team.

Financial planners focus on investment and selling financial products like insurance

While money coaches help you enjoy your money today while being relaxed about your financial future. 

So what does that look like?

If you want to buy a new car, then I help you create a plan to get one

While also making sure you’re achieving your investment goals.

You also get to enjoy a night out with your best friend or take vacations with your kiddos 

While working on both goals.

What did you learn about a money coach?

#money #widows #widowsoninstagram #healingprocess #moneycoach
Most people think money is all about numbers  or Most people think money is all about numbers 

or understanding complicated financial concepts.

But here’s the truth:

I taught personal finance for over 20 years,  

but when I lost my husband, Jamie, 

My spending got completely out of control

Because I didn’t understand my EMOTIONS

When I fully understood how to handle my emotions

I was able to reduce my spending by $1000’s

Understanding your emotions can help 

➡️ You feel better about how your spending your money

➡️ You feel better about your healing processs

➡️ You start buying items that you actually use and enjoy

Want to learn more? 

Tap the link in my bio to get your copy of my “No-Regretts Purchases” Mini Guide. 

#widowsoninstagram #widows #widowshelpingwidows #healingprocess #moneymatters #moneybeliefs #grief
Understanding my grief helped me stop overspending Understanding my grief helped me stop overspending by $1000’s. 

When I realized I would always miss my late husband, Jamie,  I stopped searching for self-help programs to make me “more positive.”

When I learned how to process sadness instead of jumping online to avoid it, I stopped buying things just to feel better.

When I understood that my new widow self was doing the best she could, I stopped shaming her, which helped with my overall mood. 

Which reason are you struggling with when it comes to spending money?

#emotionalshopping #healing #widows #myhealingjourney #widowshelpingwidows #moneytalks #widowsoninstagram
When it comes to beating up yourself for past mone When it comes to beating up yourself for past money decisions, I’m just not interested. ❌

Why? 

Because being mean to yourself doesn’t help you improve your spending habits.

It only makes you feel worse. 

Changes only happen when you feel supported and understood. 

When you’re loving and kind to yourself, you can increase your confidence to change your spending. 

Comment below with a 🥰 if you agree with me.

#widows #healingprocess #moneytalk #mymoney #spendinghabits
In 2013, I suddenly lost my husband, Jamie, and jo In 2013, I suddenly lost my husband, Jamie, and joined a club that no one wants to be a part of.   During that time, I have grown so much.  It’s been, hands down, the hardest thing that I have done, but I have strived not to let it destroy me.  

In honor of National Widow’s Day, I want to remind everyone that healing is a process, not an event.  Healing never stops because I’ll never stop loving or grieving over losing Jamie.    

What have you learned about yourself or the grieving process since becoming a widow?

#nationalwidowsday  #widows  #widow  #lifeafterloss #healingprocess
Your words have so much power.   The way you ta Your words have so much power.  

The way you talk to yourself affects your healing journey. 

You can stop yourself in your tracks or move forward in your healing.

When you say words like “never” or “can’t” your brain will shut down and you will stay in the exact place you are.

When you say words like “learning” or “open to trying” your brain will find solutions so you can make the changes you desire.

In the comments, tell me how you speak nicely to yourself.

#grief #widow #widowsofinstagram #widows #healingispossible #financialplanner #griefsupport #griefliteracy #griefjourney #estateagents
Stop doing positive affirmations and start creatin Stop doing positive affirmations and start creating 3% less 💩 thoughts.

When your kids are arguing, and you're trying to get dinner on the table

Do you catch yourself thinking, “My life sucks! I wish my husband was still alive”?

I know that I did.

Many motivational speakers say that positive affirmation will help improve your attitude.

This is such 💩

Going into the bathroom and repeating, “I love my life” 5 times 

will not make you feel better.

Because it’s too big of a jump to go from sucks to love. 

Your mind and heart are calling complete BS  on this “positive” statement

If you want something that works

Heress a 3% less 💩 thought:

“I can learn to like my new life”

Here’s why this will work better: 

➡️ It’s more believable. 

➡️ You are honoring where you are 

➡️  You can see the next step is actually possible

Sound amazing?! 

Head to the link in my bio for the No Regret Mini-Guide where I provide you with more 3% less 💩 thought 👏

#widows #widow #widowsoninstagram #healyourself #timetoheal #youcandothis
Did you know this? 🤔 The Ultimate No-Regrets P Did you know this? 🤔

The Ultimate No-Regrets Purchases Mini-Guide can help you take control of your healing and spending.

So, what does this mean for you as a widow?

Be kinder to yourself about your past money decisions

Improve the way you feel about money

Feel better about your grief and healing process

Increase your money confidence about future purchases 

Want to learn more? 

DM me MONEY, and I’ll send The Ultimate No-Regrets Purchases Mini-Guide link your way. 

#widows #griefandhealing #widowsofinstagram #moneytalk #personalfinanceforwomen
Want to enjoy your life again NOW?!  Here’s ex Want to enjoy your life again NOW?! 

Here’s exactly how to get it: 

1️⃣  Make self-care a priority.  

You’re spending so much time taking care of your kids. 

It’s important to spend time refueling yourself. 

Taking care of yourself helps you show up the way you want.

2️⃣  Watch how you talk about yourself

Words have so much power.

How you speak to yourself is a game changer in moving forward.

3️⃣  Buy things that bring you joy

When you buy items you love, 

then you have no regrets about the way you’re spending money.

This step helps you feel more confident with money.

Be sure to SAVE this post so you can refer to it as you rebuild this next chapter of life! 

#healinghearts  #findingjoy  #innerhealing #youngwidow #widowstrong #widows
Justified OR just another excuse? 😬 I hear thi Justified OR just another excuse? 😬

I hear this saying all the time! But here’s what it really means… 

We're bombarded with negativity on a constant basis.

So it's easier to focus on the negative.

Watching the way you talk about a problem 

Can either keep you stuck or open you up to the possibilities.

#yourwordsmatter

Changing your word choices

Can change your entire life

#selftalkmatters

Let me know in the comments below if you resonate with this!

#widowsofinstagram #widowlife #healingprocess
A student died from suicide at the high school, wh A student died from suicide at the high school, where I taught, in 2011 ( three years before my husband died).

At the one year mark, I had her close friends in class.

They were still struggling.

Can you relate?

People were telling my grieving students they should be over it by now. 

I told them I had no idea what they were going through. 

And that was the truth. 

It’s impossible to understand the effects of a tragic death

Until you have walked the walk

Yet, as grievers, we expect people who haven’t walked our journey to get it.

So when Jamie, my spouse, passed away unexpectedly, 

I knew that people weren’t going to fully understand my pain.

And I chose to give them grace when they didn’t get it.

Which allowed me to let “dumb” statements roll right off my back. 

So that I didn't add more frustration to an already difficult situation.

Do you give people grace?

#griefjourney #griefandhealing #widow #widowsupport #exceptations

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